Have you been frustrated with the no good men pursuing you? Here is a thought for you today.
[good] Men do not fight for anything of no value. Are you worth fighting for?
Now of course, I assure you that you ARE worth fighting for. The question is not as if you were not possibly worthy, but whether or not you act like you are worthy. Do you act like you are valuable enough to be fought for and pursued? Further, do you believe you are valuable?
If you give yourself out to whatever and whomever, you are not believing you are worthy or valuable enough to be really fought for and pursued. You give yourself to lesser boys and ‘guys’ who will never fight and are looking for easy pleasure. You will not be saved and taken care of if you are not valuable. You will only be used and thrown away.
But that is the game of boys and guys!
Men will fight for and pursue value and worth. You ARE valuable and worthy, BUT act like it and believe it.
* Quick letter to my male students
Thanks, PC!
I realize this is a quick note, but in its brevity it is a bit trite. I’m a married woman with plenty of single friends who are gorgeous daughters of the King. Unfortunately, most of them have been summarily overlooked by the sons of the King. The reason behind it is much more complex than you’ve given credit for here.
Yep! Please stop by again tomorrow and read my quick note to my guy students (my sons of the king who are, indeed, overlooking beautiful and wonderful daughters)
This makes me really thankful.
If you go and try to make things work by primal instinct, initial and hopefully try to make it last physical attraction, then yes you’re selling yourself short. You may feel valuable and very special at the moment to be put above other females to the point where the guy values and finds you more attractive than any other girl–but if a guy goes primarily by physical attraction then he will most easily be the type to be swayed quickly and easily to “more attraction girls” that come across his path and just toss you aside and then you will feel used and where does that leave you? with nothing substansial. I fall victim to this selfishness and sin of vanity– actually more lately this past year than before– but I am trying to work on it and hope that I start looking deeper into a relationship than just physical attraction. But yes, as I’ve heard and learned, natural chemistry and attraction are biological–its partly in our natural primal animal instinct to choose the “healthiest, “prettiest” one to best continue the line.” but that doesn’t mean its completely right and i think and have heard that as humans we are more able to think more throughly about it then just relying on physical attraction. sorry this was so long. but i did enjoy your note PC i have to think through it more throughly actually lolz!! and see if I fully agree with it…
thanks for the feedback, Regina. I definitely see where you are coming from.
How we act definitely influences the way others treat us. I think this is the case for all ages and genders. I loved this post, PC. I think it is timely and you were right on in sharing it.